How is it SO easy for me to sway from what I really want?
In my wedding planning, I’ve run into people who have made it clear that I’m doing things wrong.
No bridesmaids? bad idea
Wedding outside of a church? why!?
Cutting costs on flowers? you’ll regret it
Spending more on photographer? what a waste
Now, I’ve found myself shaping MY day (and spending our money) on a day that has become some monstrosity that fits someone else’s ideal — not mine.
When I think of a day with 200 people around me, most of whom I won’t even have a chance to talk to, I feel…. sad.
When I think of a day where I’ve invited people to make OTHER people happy — not myself, I feel… disappointed in myself.
Is anyone else feeling this way about their wedding planning?